Make Your Dream Come True Day

Make Your Dream Come True Day gives you the opportunity to do something to realize your goals and dreams. Whatever your dreams are, they usually don't come true without some effort on your part. So, today is the perfect opportunity to do something about it.

On this day do something, anything, to move in the direction of achieving your dreams. Sure, sometimes it takes several steps to accomplish them. So view today as a time to get started on them. With a little effort, they will come true!

Complicated

I am never going to change for any one. But I might think over what they say a bit. Like am I too nice? Too level headed? Would I be more interesting if I lost my cool every once in a while? I don't see it. I mean that's what causes problems right? So that is why I never yell or scream or really show my anger. Plus most of the time the reason I am mad is stupid and does not matter in the big picture. Perhaps I will lose it one day... But it is going to take a lot to push me over because I have handled a lot and each thing makes me stronger... I have had friends call me names, spread rumors and back stab me. Guys have cheated on me, make me feel worthless, even hit me and left me. I am stronger because of it and if I do fall apart on you it just goes to show you that I love you because I am putting up a fight. But even if I don't put up a fight it does not mean I do not love you , for it could be that I love you so there for I walked away to get out of your way of you finding your happiness. It is complicated. Really it is!

Challenge for Jan11

Challenge,Tomorrow , find some quiet moments for yourself.
Have you ever found yourself in a quiet moment where you just sit back and let yourself slow down, breathe, think, daydream and live in that moment. I always loved my quiet moments that's where I get my best thoughts, my
brightest ideas. It is where I meditate and often have my most beautiful moments.

I have found that I love meditation. For me it is relaxation. I have learned to relax.

Compliment someone today!!!

“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” ~Leo Buscaglia

National cuddle up day!

Yay!! So on this amazing holiday I plan to take full advantage of this day!! I am going to cuddle up to Mario as much as I can and also when he is at work I will cuddle up in a blanket have a cup of tea and watch sleepless in Seattle since it is one romance I have never seen except for the end.
So today take a moment and cuddle the one you love or at least in a soft blanket or " cuddle up with a good book" or a movie

Life with Mario

Cooking; I am so used to guys who send me in to the kitchen and soon forget all about me. I love that Mario is at my side cooking up a storm or at least there to help with any thing at any moment. He is always coming up with amazing ideas. Such as our favorite lobster salad. It is lobster shredded and mixed with cream cheese some seasoning hot peppers and carrots wrapping in romane hearts. Brilliant!! And then just today he made this amazing soup that was so filling and just delightful. He amazes me each and ever day more and more.

Woman

The power of a woman. I love men I do. And there is many woman that I admire. Why is it tho that so many allow others to push them around? I used to be that way. I was abused in the past and for the longest time I let that rule my life. Always fearful that a hand would be raised at me and just accepting that " that is what I deserved". Then I learned something. I learned to love myself and in that I learned the power of a woman. I learned that I am beautiful. I never believed I was a beauty in fact I was convinced I was a fat unholy awkward girl with nothing to give to the world. Then I saw. I gave thought to what would happen if I never was here. I even spoke to some about it. My parents would have never had a child until my baby sister but then would my baby sister be here if my mom would have never had me for she could have given up on having kids all together. That is just an example. And I am not the only one it is the same way for us all. It pains me when I see those that do not see. They do not see the magic they posses. Each person I see is so beautiful it amazes me. And they don't see what they deserve. Pure love and happiness. They deserve the best of the world. I learned this for my self. I deserve a man that will never hurt me. I deserve never to settle. And this is what I wish for is that ever one can see that guy, gal, boy , girl, woman or man. Stand up for your self please. If she treats you like luggage, walks all over you, hits you or plays mind games that hurt you walk away find your better. If he yells at you, make you feel worthless, beats you or forgets you leave! Find your prince! Stand up for your self! There is magic in you!! Don't let some one take that away.
Look at what us woman do. We take on pain each month. We have all this emotion that we cary and really we never let the world see it all. They could not handle it all. Many many women have shown their power. We get to stand tall. And for the men that read. I still love you but I do not and will not fear for. I need not to. I am one powerful woman. Show your girl the power they have in them.